Thursday, September 18, 2025

The Author's Crypt with Dacre Stoker!

 


Jeffrey with Strange Richmond Tours will be joining Vamp Chat next week to talk all about our upcoming events. You can check out more about what’s planned here: strangerva.com/stoker-2025 

One highlight you won’t want to miss is the Dissecting Dracula workshop, Dacre’s passion project, offering a fascinating deep dive into the origins of Dracula and its cultural impact.


🦇 Hunting Vampires with Dacre Stoker

📅 October 3 & 4
📍 Richmond, Virginia

Dacre Stoker – the great-grandnephew of Dracula’s creator, Bram Stoker – will lead us through multiple events exploring the legend of vampires.

Are you a vampire fan? Dracula, the most iconic vampire story ever told, has haunted the stage, music, literature, and film for over a century. Come learn about Bram Stoker, the creation of Dracula, and why this story continues to thrill us.

You’ll have the chance to connect directly with Dacre – far more than a typical “meet & greet.”


📚 The Authors’ Crypt

Saturday, October 4 at 1 PM
Main Library – 150 seats available (Free!)

Featuring Dacre Stoker, Dan & Eva of the Vamp Chat podcast, Sharon Pajka (that's Me!), Pamela Kinney, and Ashley Grant.

Books will be available for purchase and signing after the event – don’t miss it!


A Christmas at Hollywood: Holiday Traditions Tour (December 21, 22, and 23)

Just announced through Hollywood Cemetery's email! We have brought back our Christmas tour!
I know, I know, we're really not jumping holidays, but I like to plan ahead! This is great for family members who are in town and who want to get out of the house. Obviously, I cannot promise this, but historically, all of my Virginia December cemetery tours have been in the high 50s-60s.
To RSVP, email Kelly Wilbanks at kwilbanks@hollywoodcemetery.org.
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A Christmas at Hollywood: Holiday Traditions Tour
This 90-minute holiday-themed tour will focus on Virginia holiday traditions; the story of Charles Minnigerode and the first Christmas tree in Williamsburg; Colonial and Victorian-era Christmas customs; and reflections on remembrance and tradition during the holiday season.
Sunday, December 21 at 3:00pm
Monday, December 22 at 3:00pm
Tuesday, December 23 at 3:00pm
This event is free; however, a donation to Friends of Hollywood Cemetery is encouraged. No refunds or transfers. Spaces are limited to 30 participants. An RSVP is required to attend.
Please dress comfortably for walking.
For questions and to RSVP, email Kelly Wilbanks at kwilbanks@hollywoodcemetery.org.

Saturday, September 13, 2025

Rolling Rugs, ChatGPT Birds, and Witches: Reflections on Teaching, Connection, and Curiosity

Book signing at my local Barnes & Noble

Last weekend, I had one of those moments that remind you why you do the work you do. At my book signing, a student from twenty years ago showed up and said, “Remember me?”

As if I could forget. She was the stubborn student who hated English class so much she once pretended to fall asleep on the reading rug right in the middle of the room. Instead of fussing at her, I did what any good teacher (or perhaps any slightly odd teacher) might do: I rolled her up in the rug and carried her into the hallway. She laughed, I laughed, and then I wondered if maybe rolling students up in rugs wasn’t actually in the teacher handbook.

On Saturday, she and another former student from a completely different era of my teaching life drove three hours just to say hi and get a book signed. People can call me weird. They can side-eye my research interests or think my courses are strange. But what endures, what carries through decades, is connection. For me and my students, that connection just happens to come through dark and spooky things.

ChatGPT created image
That theme carried through the rest of my weekend. I spent this morning leading a session on how students can use AI tools responsibly, not as a shortcut but as a partner in their learning journey. We explored how ChatGPT, Grammarly, and other tools can support paper writing, study prep, and presentations while still building critical thinking skills. One highlight was comparing ChatGPT with the chat feature in Office 365. The results were both eye-opening and hilarious: Office 365 gave us slick visuals, while ChatGPT managed to spell “Edgar Allan Poe” correctly—partial credit!—but decided that the bird in The Raven was called a “Thaven.” It was a perfect reminder that AI is powerful and quirky, but the human brain is still the best fact-checker. The takeaway? Use AI to enhance your work, not replace your creativity. Bring your curiosity, and let AI be a tool, not a crutch.


After, I attended "Sylvia Plath and the American Witch-Hunts" with Dorka Tamas, hosted by Romancing the Gothic. It was a rich discussion of how Plath used witches in her poetry as figures of power, persecution, and resistance, shaped by both history and the cultural climate of McCarthyism. We explored four of Plath’s poems: "The Times Are Tidy," "Witch Burning," "Lady Lazarus," and "Fever 103". Each poem revealed how Plath used the witch figure to grapple with politics, gender, myth, and survival. Dorka reminded us that these witches are not just rebels or victims; they are complex, layered, and alive with meaning.

Now I'm just sitting out on my porch thinking about my teaching and learning, how it is really just one long experiment in connection. You never know which moments will matter. You never know which odd, small, or unconventional things will roll back into your life twenty years later. But when they do, they remind you why you teach, why you write, and why you keep showing up. That’s the magic.


Thursday, September 4, 2025

Book signing at Barnes & Noble (Creeks at Virginia Centre) 1-3pm

This Saturday, I’ll be doing a book signing at Barnes & Noble for my new book, Haunted Virginia Cemeteries, and kicking off the spooky season with a celebration of stories and shared passions. 🎃📚

I know how these events go. Some people will ask me where the bathroom is, or what books I recommend, assuming I work at the store. Others will avoid eye contact because they don’t want to feel pressured into buying a copy. And that’s okay, I’ve been teaching English for 25 years, and I’m prepared for all of it. I can recommend books and I know where the bathroom is. And people avoiding eye contact, not a problem at all.

For me, book events are about connecting with like-minded people, sharing enthusiasm for books, and engaging in conversations that remind us why we love stories in the first place.

If you’re around, stop by! Let’s talk books, writing, and maybe even a little bit of spooky season magic.



Sunday, August 31, 2025

World Frankenstein Day 2025

This year, for World Frankenstein Day, I wanted to do more than just acknowledge Mary Shelley’s novel. I decided to live with it for a little while, to let it shape my meals, my activities, and even my evening drink.

Leading up to the day, I reread Frankenstein; or, the Modern Prometheus to get lost in the voice of the book again. I have the W. W. Norton edition of Mary Shelley's Frankenstein, which presents the 1818 text of the novel. 

The night before, I watched the 2015 Frankenstein movie, a modern-day retelling set in Los Angeles and told from the perspective of the Monster. It struck me how difficult it must be to capture the feeling of the novel on screen. The book is sprawling and layered in a way that films can’t quite manage. They get close sometimes but there’s always something missing.

In the morning I made myself a deconstructed shepherd’s breakfast, inspired by what the creature ate when he first learned to survive. Bread, cheese, and milk were his staples. I kept it vegetarian and arranged it with a bit of humor. Pesto toast with spinach became my base, two cooked eggs with olives for pupils stood in for his “dull yellow eye,” Morningstar facon gave him hair, and tomato lips rested on a slice of Brie with a garlic nose. A potato was foraged from the pantry because it needed to be eaten. When I sliced into it I found a spot that had to be cut out and it left me with a heart shape. It felt accidental and perfect.

Mary Shelley, Percy Shelley, and Lord Byron were vegetarians back then, though they called it a natural diet. I thought a lot about how the creature’s vegetarianism symbolized his inherent goodness. It made sense that my breakfast, with its playful monster face and its potato heart, would carry that meaning too.

I worked in the garden for a while in the afternoon. The creature’s sense of wonder at nature is one of the most touching parts of the book, so it felt right to dig in the dirt and be surrounded by green things.

Dinner was pesto pasta with tomatoes. I had planned to cook kale, since that was Mary Shelley’s favorite vegetable, but I was too tired to fuss with it and the pasta was simple and comforting.

To close the day I made a Frankenstein Cocktail. One ounce of dry vermouth, one ounce of gin (I used McQueen and the Violet Fog Ultraviolet Edition, hibiscus berry gin that added a strange botanical clarity), half an ounce of apricot brandy for sweetness, and half an ounce of Cointreau instead of triple sec. I garnished it with Rum Bada Bing cherries, red as a borrowed heart. I sipped it from my green Federal depression glass Rose of Sharon punch cup, which is made of uranium glass that glows faintly under UV light. It was a perfect vessel for the night.

I hoped the day would inspire some connection. I challenged other bloggers to take part in their own way, to make it feel like a secret society scattered across the map. We may have celebrated alone, just like the creature. But I knew you were out there.

I want to keep living with books in my head and heart, even as the world seems to drift further from reading. Storytelling takes different shapes now, but I miss the days of my English majors in Intro to Lit, when I overloaded classes just to gather more voices in the room. I loved teaching those beginnings, opening pages together, watching new readers catch fire. The world has changed, and I know I can’t go back, but part of me still holds on to that past, to the quiet magic of shared words.

If you blogged, please drop your post link in the comments so we can catch up on each other's days! 


Saturday, August 23, 2025

World Frankenstein Day: An invitation to Gather through Blogging

Remember our old blog days, when we gave each other homework and set strange little challenges just to see what we’d do with them? When comment threads felt like hidden corridors where the real conversations lived? The Very Curious Dr. Z, I know you remember. In that spirit, I’m summoning the circle again.

The world has gone dark, and not in the delicious gothic way. I want connection, something real, something secret and shared even across the distance. So, here’s the triple dog dare: join me in celebrating World Frankenstein Day, on Saturday, August 30th, Mary Shelley’s birthday.

She gave us a tale of creation and rejection, a nameless creature both intelligent and unloved, wandering alone through storm and silence. He has always felt like a companion to me, misunderstood, but still alive with longing. Which is why my own celebration will be solitary.

"The monster was the best friend I ever had." - Boris Karloff

This year, my celebration will look a lot like my usual gothy routines, only charged with the spark of the occasion. I’ll be reading the Kolaj version of Frankenstein; or, the Modern Prometheus that features seventy-six illustrations by International Collage Artists. I'll write poetry under flickering black candles (or most likely the sun), verses stitched from loneliness and lightning. I’ll probably wander into a cemetery. And, I’ll mix myself a cocktail to toast Mary Shelley and her nameless creation.

Frankenstein Cocktail

1 ounce Dry Vermouth for smooth, herbaceous gloom

1 ounce Gin for sharp botanical clarity

1/2 ounce Apricot Brandy for sweetness in the shadows

1/2 ounce Triple Sec for citrus lightning

Garnish with a cherry, red as a borrowed heart

Shaken, strained, and consumed like a pact.

I’m challenging you to take part in your own way. Read a passage from Frankenstein. Watch an old black-and-white horror film. Write something, stitch something, light a candle, pour a drink, summon the storm. Report back. Tell me how you kept the day.

Let’s make it feel like it used to: a secret society scattered across the map, bound together by shared ritual and words. On August 30th, I’ll be celebrating alone, just like the creature. But maybe, just maybe, we won’t be so alone if we do it together.

When you share your ritual, your poem, your candlelit toast, begin or end with these words, as though we are all whispering them into the same night:

“We are the children of Shelley, keepers of the storm. [Okay, I'm feeling a bit dramatic.] We gather though apart, stitched together by ink and shadow. On this night of Frankenstein, we honor the nameless and the misunderstood. Alone, yet not alone, we light the dark with words, with memory, with creation.”

Write it, speak it, or leave it hidden like a charm at the end of your message. Consider it our oath, our flicker of connection in the storm.

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Church Hill Tunnel Commemoration Tour

 


Thursday, October 2 and Friday, October 3

October 2nd, 1925 in Richmond started like most other days, but it would go down leaving a permanent scar on the community’s mind and landscape.
We will mark 100 years since the collapse of the Church Hill Train Tunnel with a series of “give-what-you-wish” mini-tours. Tours will start at Richbrau Brewing Company and proceed to the west end of the tunnel, sharing the history of the tunnel and the urban legend of the Richmond Vampire that came in the decades that followed.
Tours will be 45-50 minutes, round-trip from Richbrau Brewing. The first tour will be at 6:30PM, with tours leaving every 20-30 minutes until 8:00PM, on both October 2nd and October 3rd. Tour availability is first come, first served. Space will be limited and we are not accepting reservations. Check in with the Haunts of Richmond table upon arrival to register.
Select merchandise will be available for sale, including books about the train tunnel collapse and the Richmond Vampire. Local author Sharon Pajka will be in attendance with her new book, Haunted Virginia Cemeteries, featuring Richmond’s Hollywood Cemetery and the Vampire legend.

Monday, August 11, 2025

A book signing, a cemetery tour under the full moon, and feeling grateful...

Moonrise over the James River, Hollywood Cemetery, Richmond, Virginia

There’s a popular perception about professors and summer. The story goes something like this: when classes end, we pack away our notes, grab a good book, and spend the next few months soaking up the sun, traveling, or enjoying leisurely mornings with endless cups of coffee.

While that might be true for some, my summer has looked very different. The weeks leading up to the fall semester have been some of my busiest and most rewarding. This summer I have spent my time working and as a volunteer where I connect with my community, and push creative projects forward, work that fuels both my writing and my teaching.

This past weekend was a perfect snapshot of my summer. On Saturday morning, I had a book signing at the Richmond Public Library. The turnout was incredible, and I was reminded once again that my best-selling venues happen to be two places steeped in history and meaning: the library and the cemetery. Both are spaces where stories are preserved, just in different ways.

After signing books, catching up with friends, and meeting new readers, I grabbed lunch with a friend before preparing for my evening Full Moon cemetery tour. This was no ordinary night. We gathered under the Sturgeon Moon in Aquarius, an air sign that speaks to communication, shared visions, and building bridges between past and future. I always try to start each Full Moon tour with a fresh perspective, and this time I even threw in a dad joke which, I must say, landed surprisingly well. It was a reel-y good joke!

We had around 65 attendees that night. Over the course of the three Full Moon tours I have led this summer, we have raised 2,875 dollars for the Friends of Hollywood Cemetery. That money goes directly toward preserving this historic site and ensuring that its stories and beauty remain for generations to come.

After the tour, a few new friends invited me out to a diner. I said yes. That is not my usual post-event routine since I am often home well before midnight, but this time I stayed out until 1 a.m. and it was worth every minute. The good conversations, laughter, and sense of connection cannot be scheduled into a calendar. Okay, it can, and I used to have a spontaneity sticker for my planner, but you know what I mean. 

On Sunday, I ventured into new territory with my first visit to the Oddities and Curiosities Expo. I had never attended before since taxidermy has never been my thing, as I like my goth a little less literal, but I am so glad I went. The creativity on display was inspiring, and I left with my hands full of art. 

Every tour I lead, every conversation I have, and every new experience I step into adds something to my toolkit as an educator. History comes alive when you have walked the ground where it happened. Storytelling deepens when you have stood under the moonlight sharing it with others. Creativity expands when you are open to unexpected inspiration.

For me, summer is not downtime. It is an investment in the work I will be doing all year long. When the semester begins, I will bring these experiences, stories, and renewed energy into my classroom. My students do not just get lectures, they get a richer and more connected view of the world because I have been out there engaging with it.

So yes, the sun is shining, and somewhere in a cemetery, there is a lounge chair with my name on it. For now, I am busy, and I would not have it any other way.


Tuesday, August 5, 2025

Painting ghosts in the cemetery



We started our day with an Almond Joy latte for Babushka and a Coco Loco for me from Rivers Edge Coffee. With warm cups in hand, we made our way to Overlook 3 at Hollywood Cemetery, with a perfect view, arguably the best, of the James River and the skyline of Richmond.

Lunch came courtesy of Sally Bell’s Kitchen. Babushka went with the Roast Beef & Swiss, while I opted for the Egg Salad Box Lunch, each complete with the perfect sides (potato salad, deviled eggs, and cheese wafers). We claimed a quiet spot near Palmer Chapel and let the day unfold.

Armed with paint-by-number kits featuring ghostly cemetery scenes (because of course we are going to paint ghosts in a cemetery), we settled in. The breeze was soft and the company was steady. Sometimes we talked, sometimes we let the cemetery do the talking.

There were mild grievances, such as Color #7 being questionable at best, and Colors #8 and #9 may have had identity crises, but even our complaints felt like part of the ritual. We spent the afternoon haunting the place, slowly bringing spectral forms to life with every careful brushstroke.

It was my book release day, and oddly, perfectly, it felt like my own kind of release too. A day painted with laughter, ghosts, and Babushkas just the way I needed.

Thursday, July 31, 2025

Episode 243 - Haunted History: Exploring Virginia's Cemeteries with Sharon Pajka

🔮 Prepare yourself for the séance… 🔮

Cemetery Travel Royalty Returns: Loren Rhoads Launches Kickstarter for New Book!

I’ve been a fangirl of Loren Rhoads for years, long before I could call her a friend. Her writing, her insight, and her fearless curiosity made me feel seen. She showed me that it’s okay, even beautiful, to explore cemeteries not just for research, but for recreation and reflection. 

Loren is truly the queen of cemetery travel. She runs CemeteryTravel.com, an incredible resource and community hub for taphophiles, historians, travelers, and the merely curious. And now, she’s back with a brand-new book! Still Wish You Were Here: More Adventures in Cemetery Travel 

This new memoir collects 35 essays from Loren’s journeys through more than 50 burial grounds worldwide from California’s Gold Country to the streets of Singapore, Tokyo, Rome, and beyond. Fifteen of these stories are brand new and exclusive to this book!

Whether she’s tracking down the graves of cultural icons, getting wonderfully lost in foreign churchyards, or meditating on mortality, Loren’s stories are vivid, thoughtful, and deeply inspiring.

Kickstarter is live! and runs until August 8, 2025
https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/lorenrhoads/still-wish-you-were-here-more-adventures-in-cemetery-travel

If cemeteries call to you the way they do to me, if you’ve ever wandered through one feeling connected, curious, or just at peace, this is the book to support.

Thank you, Loren, for making this strange and sacred form of travel feel like home.

Monday, July 28, 2025

Morning Coffee at Hollywood Cemetery

This morning included dropping off my husband at work. Since his office is just down the street from Hollywood Cemetery, I couldn’t resist a detour. With my travel mug of coffee, my yogurt for breakfast, and my journal, I headed down the road, telling myself that I was going to wait out the morning traffic before heading home.

I made my way to one of the overlooks perched above the James River, where the sound of water and the steady hum of cicadas offered a loud, living backdrop. It was one of those perfect early summer mornings, humid but not too hot, buzzing with life, and full of stories waiting to be discovered. There were some fallen limbs and leaves from last night’s storms, and the grass was heavy with morning dew that soaked through my shoes as I walked. I didn't mind, though. 

After journaling, I wandered into some parts of the cemetery that I rarely make time to explore when I'm giving guided tours. There’s something so different about visiting a place without a plan, just letting the place guide your way. 

This morning, they led me to the Crenshaw plot not far from President’s Circle, where I caught a delicate and distinct fragrance on the breeze: the Musk Rose, or Rosa moschata. This particular rose is something special. Once believed to be extinct, the Musk Rose was rediscovered right here in the Crenshaw plot some years ago. Since then, it’s been found in other locations, all tied to the same family. Thanks to the foresight of folks like Connie at Hartwood Roses, cuttings were taken, and the rose now grows in nurseries and gardens, safe from vanishing again. You can read more about its journey on her blog: hartwoodroses.blogspot.com.

This morning, the bush held only two blooms. This rose bush is unique for having two different types of flowers. Apparently, one form is a mutation of the other. It’s a rare and lovely thing to see in person (but mostly to smell!), and even more special knowing its story.

As I was getting ready to head out, I ran into two women walking through the cemetery, sisters with one visiting from Savannah, Georgia. Naturally, the conversation turned to cemeteries. We chatted all things Savannah: Bonaventure Cemetery, the infamous Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, and the meandering paths of Colonial Park that cut through the city. We even touched on Laurel Grove Cemetery, the final resting place of Juliette Gordon Low, the founder of the Girl Scouts. I love Savannah cemeteries, but you just cannot beat the breeze of the river, which helps keep those pesky gnats away. I bought a mesh head net for the next time I visit Savannah.   

I gave the sisters a quick impromptu tour of Presidents Circle and pointed out John Tyler and James Monroe, the Lloyd family plot (What happened to Frank? If you are familiar with the grave, you know what I'm talking about), and, of course, I had to introduce them to the Musk Rose before parting ways.

There’s something incredibly grounding about mornings like this, feet wet with dew, cicadas singing, unexpected conversations blooming among the graves. History isn’t just in books or plaques; it’s in the plants, the stones, the people you meet, and the stories you pass along.

And sometimes, it starts with a cup of coffee and a slight change in your morning routine. 

For those who couldn't get out to the cemetery this morning, here's a short video of part of my morning stroll. 



Thursday, July 24, 2025

“Writing the Dead”: A Creative Reckoning with America’s Last Taboo

Black Beauty rosebud currently blooming
This morning, I read "The modern taboo that Americans just can’t seem to break," Sara Youngblood Gregory’s timely piece in Vox on the persistent silence around death in American culture. It’s a moving exploration of how, despite our thoughts often turning to mortality, we struggle to give voice to our grief, our fears, and our hopes about what comes after. From families that sidestep the subject altogether to a culture shaped by euphemism and for-profit deathcare, the result is clear: we are left ill-equipped to process loss or live fully in its shadow.

That’s why I’m offering a new six-week course this fall through the Transformative Language Arts Network: Writing the Dead.” This course is not about resolving the mysteries of mortality. It’s about embracing them openly and together.

Black Beauty rose from my garden
Like Gregory’s article, this course begins with the premise that our reluctance to speak of death carries real emotional, psychological, and even societal costs. And yet, there is a powerful antidote in the act of making meaning. When we write and create in the wake of loss, or in conversation with it, we don’t just face death, we build a relationship with it. We connect to memory, to community, and to what it means to be alive.

Over six weeks, we’ll gather to explore death, grief, and remembrance through creative writing, visual art, and dialogue. We’ll read short texts, examine art, and create our own responses to profound questions. Writing letters to the dead, crafting rituals of remembrance, and sharing our stories will become tools for deep inquiry, healing, and transformation.

As the Vox article makes clear, most Americans think about death regularly, but only a third ever talk about it. This course offers a space to break that silence. Not in isolation, but in community.

Together, we will:

  • Explore cultural and personal narratives around death and dying.

  • Use writing to process grief and affirm connection.

  • Learn from traditions that treat death as an integral part of life—not a forbidden subject.

  • Approach our creative practice not as escape, but as a meaningful confrontation.

If you’re curious, if you’re grieving, if you’ve ever whispered to a loved one who’s no longer here, or wished you could, this course is for you. Let’s step into the conversation that matters most, and discover how writing can become a living dialogue between what’s lost and what remains.

Writing the Dead begins this fall through TLAN. Join us—and let’s talk about what no one talks about.



Monday, July 21, 2025

There’s something truly haunting about Cedar Hill Cemetery in Covington, VA

Covington Virginian, July 2, 1930.

With just a couple of weeks to go before Haunted Virginia Cemeteries is released, I find myself both counting down the days and diving even deeper into the stories that inspired it.

This project has never just been about ghost tales, though there are plenty of those to share. This research has been about honoring memory, tracing forgotten histories, and paying attention to the places where the veil between worlds feels just a little thinner.

On Wednesday morning, I’ll be leading a Meandering Among the Markers writing event in Richmond’s Hollywood Cemetery. We’ll be walking, talking, and listening closely to the quiet echoes of the past. And later this week, a few friends and I are preparing for a séance. These are the ways I stay close to the material, and how I continue to be reminded that these stories don’t always stay on the page.


One site that continues to haunt me is Cedar Hill Cemetery in Covington, nestled in the Alleghany Highlands. With more than 10,000 burials stretching back to 1816, the cemetery is a striking landscape of stone and shadow. But it’s more than just historic. Cedar Hill pulses with the kind of eerie energy that makes even skeptics like me hesitate. Strange lights have been reported there for nearly a century. In a 1930 article from Covington Virginian, witnesses described blue flames flickering over a single plot, vanishing when anyone tried to get close. Others reported seeing them on the same night, describing them as ghostly, bluish will-o’-the-wisps. No source was ever found. No earthly explanation ever confirmed. And yet, they’re said to appear still.


Folklore has long warned us about blue fire. In European traditions, it’s often a sign of spirits or hidden treasure. Bram Stoker’s Dracula featured them, too, glowing mysteriously in the Carpathians. In Cedar Hill, they may just signal the presence of a soul that never found peace.

And then there’s the legend about the statue, a marble woman forever frozen mid-step, said to represent a young bride who died tragically on her wedding day. According to local legend, she fell down the church steps and broke her neck. Her grieving husband commissioned the statue in her image, but visitors claim she mourns still. Some even say the statue bleeds but only on Halloween. Journalists have gone out to witness it. None have succeeded. But the stories persist.

Nearby lies another grave, and another story, one that chills me every time I think about it. A young mother buried in 1848, was thought to have died of grief after losing her child. When the cemetery moved her grave decades later, workers discovered her remains face down, one hand raised near her head. It’s believed she had been in a coma, mistaken for dead, and awoke after burial. Her final moments must have been pure terror. Some say her spirit still lingers, her anguish imprinted in the ground itself.


Cedar Hill is not a place you simply visit. It’s a place that lingers with you. Those who walk among the graves at Cedar Hill don’t always leave unchanged. 

Sometimes, they carry a little of the place with them.

Saturday, July 19, 2025

Two Weeks Until My Book Release—A Reflection on Pocahontas Cemetery


In just about two weeks, Haunted Virginia Cemeteries will be released. As I count down the days, I’m also deeply immersed in the work that led to this book: honoring memory, summoning stories, and yes, even preparing for a séance later this week (more on that soon). 

This week is a full one. I’ll be leading the TLA Community Circle via Zoom tomorrow evening and leading a Meandering Among the Markers event in Richmond’s Hollywood Cemetery on Wednesday morning. 


As I think about conjuring spirits, my thoughts return to my own family story—my grandfather, Stanley Pajka, a coal miner in Luzerne, Pennsylvania, who died of tuberculosis at forty-four. My father was just a child, unable to hug his “Pop” during those long, isolated months in a sanitorium

That history echoed strongly during my trip to Tazewell County, Virginia, where I visited Pocahontas Cemetery, established after the tragic 1884 mine explosion that killed at least 114 men. Walking among the graves, I saw inscriptions in Polish, Russian, Hungarian, Italian, and English, reminders of the immigrant labor recruited to Appalachia by coal barons, far from the American dream they were promised. 

Like the towns I visited in my childhood, Pocahontas is steeped in memory and haunted by loss. Ghostly sightings and unexplained phenomena persist in the cemetery. With recent state funding for restoration, including ground-penetrating radar to locate lost graves, perhaps the spirits are stirred by our renewed attention. 

A century after the disaster, Historic Pocahontas Inc. erected a memorial near Centre Street. Every year, the town holds a candlelight vigil to honor the miners. The dead are not forgotten, and their presence, I believe, is still felt. 

Stay tuned as I share more stories from the road and behind the veil. The ghosts are ready. Are you? 

Wednesday, July 16, 2025

🪦 Meet the Author – Book Signing Event 🪦

On Saturday, August 9, 2025, I’ll be at the Richmond Public Library Main Branch (Lobby Table) from 9:00am to 12:00pm with a selection of my books—come say hello!

I’ll have copies of:

  • Haunted Virginia Cemeteries 👻
  • The Souls Close to Edgar Allan Poe: Graves of his Family, Friends, and Foes –winner of the 2024 Saturday 'Visiter' Awards presented by Poe Baltimore
  • Women Writers Buried in Virginia 🪦

While Richmond welcomes the wonderfully weird at the Oddities & Curiosities Expo that weekend, I’ll be just a few blocks away offering a literary detour for those who love history, mystery, and the macabre. The Richmond Public Library is committed to supporting local writers, providing a relaxed setting for readers to discover new voices.

Stop by, browse, chat, and grab a signed copy—I’d love to see you there! 🖋️📚



Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Poetry

This Summer, I Rooted Myself

This summer, I will not flee
no packed bags, no distant sea.
No cemetery vacay, no grand escape,
instead a work-cation in my own shape.

While others chased far-off peace,
I found that staying brought more release.
No packed itineraries or travel plans,
just time unfolding in my own hands.

I stayed, and in the staying, grew
in garden soil and words renew.
Seven summers in this place,
from poison ivy to a greener oasis.

The cardinals called from nearby trees,
five bunnies scattered through hydrangeas' knees.
And as chainsaws echoed down the street,
I made our yard a safe retreat
a wildlife haven, full and wild,
a home for birds, for blooms, for sundials.

I worked not in a rigid frame,
my perspective changed in this domain.
The kitchen island bore my dreams
The patio, my quiet schemes.
The screened back porch with my comfy chair,
Wind chimes chiming through the air.

I nurtured more than stems and leaves
I cherished the moments; I chased beliefs.
An online course, where poems could grow,
each word a bloom, a friend or foe.
I built not just a garden fence,
but space for others: knowledge immense.

Moonlit tours through a sacred ground,
workshops where new voices were found.
Creative sparks, both shared and sown,
No one ever writes alone.

And now, another book is nearly here,
a harvest ripened throughout the year.
Not just one dream, but another fulfilled,
by the roots I chose, and the soil I tilled.

So no, I didn’t skip a break.
I just redefined what rest to take.
Each breath, each bloom, a soft staycation
a daily, grounded, holistic celebration.

I rested deep, I worked with grace,
I found my rhythm, held my place.
A summer not escaped, but known
My life, this garden, a perfect home.




You ask me how to pray to someone who is not

You ask me how to pray to someone who is not—a god.
Not crowned in thunder or enthroned abroad,
but ever so near, the silence sings
through roots and wings and hidden things.

Then watch the garden where the Holy grows,
not in cathedral stone, but in divine rows;
where beetles hum and robins preach,
and heaven bends within their reach.

The spider, hanging in the light,
weaves rosaries of silk. At night
its chapel spun between two leaves,
where shadows twist, no one sees.

The bee, golden alms, is its task,
works like prayer, no one asks
how nectar turns to something sweet
a miracle, a glorious feat.

The ant, who knows no creed or fame,
builds temples none will ever name,
yet every grain it lifts with care
becomes a hymn, becomes a prayer.

The birds, with diversity in the living,
Work together, an act of giving
None alone must protect the tree
Against the predators, an act of philanthropy.

The vine, with green and clinging grace,
reaches like hands that seek a face
it climbs toward light with no regret,
a psalm in motion, rise and set.

Even weeds, with thorns and spikes, cast out,
still wear the sun, still grow from sprouts
they teach that grace will always grow
in places we forget to know.

So how to pray to someone who is not—a god?
Pray with seed, with soil, with sod.
Let silence be your sacred text,
and awe the only thing expressed.

For prayer is this: to see, to stay,
to be like them is no more to say.
The garden knows what saints have guessed:
God walks where every creature rests.

Monday, July 7, 2025

A Farewell to Friends


A Farewell to Friends

Like so many wise men—
they never told the whole story.
Not about that old Corvair,
or the Studebaker Avanti.

Car of the Year, 1960.
“Unsafe at any speed.”
“Those accusations were proven false.”
The old car was always there—
from before I can remember.

One day, it would be back on the road,
his engine humming like an afterthought,
the cabin thick with dust and fresh oil,
and something sweet I never could place.

He coughed when he started,
“Leaked oil like a derelict tanker,
his heater tried to kill you with fumes.”
but he never missed a chance to go.

The Avanti came later—sleeker, stranger.
A sharp-nosed dream from another time.
Fiberglass and ambition.
“The fastest production car in the world.”
Sherwood Egbert’s doodle!

He parked like he owned the place.
Leather seats gleaming in the sun,
gauges with numbers too high to believe,
a voice like thunder held back by chrome.

The banter was constant—
compression, design, dignity—
and who had aged with more grace.
It was always loud,
affectionate laughter.

This morning, the Corvair’s engine didn’t turn over.
No cough.
No protest.
Just stillness.
“It had been a good few days.”
“Maybe the alternator?”

Avanti means “onward” in Italian.
But what do you do
when your oldest friend
has parked?

I wish I could stand in the garage again—
tools hanging on the wall,
handing wrenches,
listening to them reminisce about the past.

Corvair—faithful and flawed,
leaking, fuming, alive.
Avanti—beautiful and proud,
still whispering:
Get out there. Drive!

They were never just cars.
Reliable in imperfect ways.
Worn. Strange. Loud.
Utterly present.

Cars hold stories.
We keep them alive—
in the way we remember,
in the way we say goodbye,
in the way we drive.

  • This poem is based on my father's relationship with his close friend, Nelson, who passed just shy of his 89th birthday.  I have never known a world where Nelson wasn't part of our family. I've also never known a world that did not have Studebakers. The photos are my brother and me... and Sherwood, a 64 Studebaker Avanti. 
  • In the top photo, my father must have taken the picture because the car is perfectly framed. My brother is completely chopped out of the frame. Oh no, is that paint? Watch out Sherwood, I’m coming for you!

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Postcards for my next book arrived today !

 Today's fun surprise was receiving post cards for my forthcoming book! Thanks Arcadia Publishing

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image description: a box with book release cards for Haunted Virginia Cemeteries by Sharon Pajka. The cards include the image of the book cover-- a statue with a large moon and the book title. The back of the card reads "An eerie din provides the soundtrack at Arlington Cemetery, while the gauzy visage of a lady in red flits among heroes’ gravestones. Civil War soldiers meet in perpetual conflict at Mount Hebron Cemetery, and Thomas Jefferson’s restive spirit makes itself known at Monticello. From the ghost that haunted Hollywood Cemetery for months after the Capitol disaster in 1870 to multiple presidential tombs throughout the state where visitors routinely catch a chill, souls find eternal rest to be a fleeting notion in Virginia. Join author Sharon Pajka on a spine-tingling journey of haunted cemeteries throughout the Old Dominion."