Saturday, June 14, 2025

Poems about Fortune Tellers, Crows, and a Pantoum

This week in my "Twelve Poets to Change Your Life," we read poems by Gwendolyn Brooks & Linda Pastan. Here are three poems inspired by their work. 

One Wants a Teller in a Time Like This 
 
One Wants a Teller in a Time Like This 
A fortune teller who can predict how to bear this business alone. 
A clairvoyant trained in psychography with an old set of Tarot cards 
spread out by her crystal ball. 

One cannot put a coin in the machine 
that spits out a prediction knowing for sure what the future will bring. 

It is certain if or why or how 
One wants a Teller now. 
 
Like Pythia, Don’t Count On It 
or Nostradamus Concentrate and Ask Again 
or Swedenborg, As I see it, yes 
or Edgar Cayce, Very doubtful 
or Jeane Dixon, Better not tell you now 
or the Fox Sisters, (thump, thump) Outlook good. 
 
Behold— 
The Magic Eight Ball 
Reply hazy. Try again later. 


              *Inspired by “One Wants a Teller in a Time Like This” by Gwendolyn Brooks


Before an Elegy with Crows 
 
I.
 
They launch themselves from the crooked wires—
 
five crows, sometimes six—
 
in bursts of laughter,
 
black air punching the morning peace.
 
Then the banging:
 
chimney caps rattled like war drums,
 
garbage can lids struck by their tiny hands.
 
Your roof for their concert,
 
as if they know the end is near
 
and want to mark it with noise.

II.
 
Their racket pierces like the rain
 
on your trailer roof back in Washington—
 
a hard, ceaseless drumming
 
you once mistook for comfort.
 
But these are strange omens,
 
crows lit by the glow of a dumpster fire
 
three streets down,
 
wings glinting orange like they’ve flown through hell
 
and brought back its warmth.

III.
 
There is nothing left to let in.
 
You’ve closed the door, sealed the vents,
 
shut out the last of the light.
 
Still, they find cracks,
 
their cries slipping in sideways,
 
a final intrusion of the world
 
before it forgets your name.

IV.
 
The crows do not flee.
 
They settle like smoke.
 
An uncanny stillness,
 
a hovering that doesn’t blink?
 
And they wait—
 
until you cannot.
 
No silence rises after their song,
 
only the sky,
 
and the sound of fire eating air.
                                           
                                       *Inspired by “The Deathwatch Beetle” by Linda Pastan.


There was an age when I was most like myself. 
Letters sent in envelopes with second chances, 
Refusing the new while holding onto the old, 
Remembering how it felt before their death. 

Letters sent in envelopes with second chances, 
Folded into prayers that I released into the wild. 
Remembering how it felt before their death, 
Each of their words vanishing across the page before my eyes. 

Folded into prayers that I released into the wild. 
Their declarations confessed on college-ruled loose leaf, 
Each of their words vanishing across the page before my eyes. 
Sealed in a grave that nobody visits. 

Their declarations confessed on college-ruled loose leaf. 
Refusing the new while holding onto the old, 
Sealed in a grave that nobody visits, 
There was an age when I was most like myself. 


                      *A pantoum inspired by “Something About the Trees” by Linda Pastan.

Monday, June 9, 2025

Poetry, poets, and books: another day longing for literary trails

I'm currently taking a course, "Twelve Poets to Change Your Life," with Caryn Mirriam-Goldberg through TLAN. We started with Emily Dickinson—so naturally, she’s been blooming in my thoughts lately. 

I spent much of my weekend in the garden. I'm happiest when I have dirt under my fingernails. After repotting plants and tending to those friends in the ground, I finished reading the spring sections of Emily Dickinson’s Gardening Life by Marta McDowell.

Flowers, poetry, and the quiet joy of digging in the earth. 

The second poet of focus this week is Walt Whitman. I  appreciate his ability to celebrate the individual spirit and the vastness of the American experience through imagery. His poetry inspires a sense of connection and self-reflection that feels timeless. 

I used one of the course prompts to compose my own poem, aiming to capture a personal perspective while honoring the tone that characterizes Whitman’s work.

My 51st Year

After the crest of half a century,

Through fog and flame, the spare seasons, the scattered joys,

My mother’s silence now a constant hum,

My father yearning to breathe free— almost eighty-seven,
gathering the light like bread, breaking it.

A new post— in halls once proud with purpose,

Now flickering, ivy fading, gasping in the marble—

Academia, fallen cold and dying? Or maybe just unvalued,

Scorned by those who forget who first opened the page for them.

The world at war again, though not always declared —

the homeless refused, children buried, cities razed— 
the names change,

but death is always the same.
 
And on Flag Day we’re told

to raise banners for a fool in a suit,

those clapping their own backs while

the hungry, tempest-tost, are hushed. 

Yet still — I lift my lamp beside the coffin door, walking —

through campus corridors, past empty chairs,

through streets that forget themselves,

past memorials that call only in whispers.

I reflect still. I write still.

Reporting in — not to salute, but to stand,

and not in uniform,

but with pen and pulse,

that glows with world-wide welcome.

Of course, literature reminds me of my other place to bethe cemetery. While people complain of humidity, especially this time of year, I long to be soaked in my own sweat in a cemetery on a mission to find a story of an author. How I am daydreaming about visiting Dickinson's grave in West Cemetery in Auborn.

These thoughts draw me back to another book, my copy of Literary Trail of Greater Boston by Susan Wilson, which was published when I lived in Massachusetts. Revisiting its pages reignited my interest in the places that connect writers to the landscapes they inhabited. When I lived there, I was a poor high school English teacher just out of grad school with little income and a hefty student loan, so I did not have much leisure time to visit all the places in Wilson's guidebook but I did walk the streets following the tour paths. I went to Walden Pond walking the path to Thoreau's cabin site. 

Now, sitting here on my porch, I’m itching to return and walk the grounds of Forest Hills Cemetery, pay tribute to the poets buried at Mount Auburn, and stand at Author’s Ridge in Sleepy Hollow Cemetery—places where the presence of literary voices still lingers.

Wednesday, May 28, 2025

Roses, Cemeteries & Friendship: A Sunday at Hartwood Roses


This past Sunday, I spent the day surrounded by blooms, history, and some of the best company at Hartwood Roses Open Garden Day. If you’ve never been, you’re seriously missing out—it’s one of those slow, beautiful days where everything smells like roses (literally) and time just feels softer.

This year’s event was on Sunday, May 25, 2025, and as always, Connie’s garden was pure magic. I still can’t believe we have been friends for ten years now. We first connected through our blogs back in 2015, then became social media friends, and cemetery adventurers together. I've attended the Hollywood Cemetery Rose Days that she led. We attended cemetery picnics together, and I've been on a few of her rose rescue missions. She’s a friend and one of the best advocates for preserving historic roses that I know.


Connie’s the reason I started growing cemetery roses in my own yard. She kind of drafted me (in the best way) into the mission to save these historic roses—once lovingly planted in cemeteries, now often neglected or mowed over by well-meaning (I use that phrase loosely) landscapers who don’t realize what treasures they’re cutting down.

There are probably more cemetery roses blooming in Connie’s garden than in most cemeteries. She’s rescued and labeled so many that walking through her garden is like taking a rose history tour. I spotted roses from Congressional Cemetery, tons from Hollywood Cemetery, and even the Emma Trainer rose—the first one I ever worked on reviving during Rose Day. Now it’s a gorgeous velvety red blooming Dr. Huey, thriving and showing off deep red blooms. Not exactly the rose she once was but still loved. 

Connie also introduced me to Anne Spencer’s garden in Lynchburg years ago, and that visit helped me see gardens not just as pretty places, but as living archives of memory and meaning.

After soaking up all the beauty in the garden, I made a stop at Fredericksburg Cemetery to visit the graves of novelist Helen Gordon Beale and her mother, diarist Jane Howison Beale. Sadly, that visit came with a heavy heart. Earlier this month, there was a major vandalism incident at the cemetery—over 15 gravestones were toppled or damaged, including markers belonging to former mayors and others with stunning religious symbolism. Repair costs are estimated at more than $20,000—a big ask for the small non-profit that maintains the space.


It is another reminder of how important it is to care for these tangible pieces of our past, whether that’s gravestones or historic roses. They tell stories. They hold memory. And once they’re gone, they’re gone.

If this kind of thing speaks to your heart, I highly recommend following Connie on Instagram @hartwoodroses to catch next year’s Open Garden Day (and enjoy some seriously gorgeous rose content in the meantime). She’s always sharing updates, and trust me—you’ll want to mark your calendar when the time comes.

Until then, I’ll be tending my little patch of rescued roses and feeling grateful for this community of caretakers, gardeners, and friends.

Monday, May 26, 2025

Haunting the Page – 5 Writing Prompts for World Dracula Day

This morning, I began World Dracula Day with “Dracula in the Morning” on Reedsy — a quiet ritual to honor the birth of one of literature’s most enduring shadows. First published on May 26, 1897, Bram Stoker’s Dracula gave us more than a vampire. It gave us a myth about desire, decay, and the lengths we go to for connection. 

It’s about the echo of eternity, the slow rot of time, and the haunting legacy we leave behind. But it’s also about machines — the phonograph, typewriter, telegraph — and how we use technology to preserve memory, reach loved ones, and whisper across centuries. We still do that. Through keyboards and screens, through ink and voice memos. We still try to be heard. 

So today, I offer 5 Writing Prompts for World Dracula Day 

  • What do I want to leave behind in this world—what mark, what myth? Consider the difference between a memory and a legend. Are you building something to be remembered... or something to haunt? 

  • How do I relate to ruins, old books, forgotten things? Why am I drawn to them? Trace the shape of your attraction to decay. Is it nostalgia, beauty, melancholy, or something deeper—something ancestral? 

  • Imagine your journal is found in a crypt 200 years from now. What truth do you want a future stranger to read? Write as if you are the ghost in the paper—what message do you leave behind in ink and dust? 

  • If my darker self wrote me a letter today, what would it say? Let the voice of your shadow self emerge—honest, unfiltered, possibly immortal. What wisdom or warning would it offer? 

  • What parts of me have already died, and what continues to live on through habit, memory, or myth? Decay isn’t just physical—it can be emotional, spiritual, or symbolic. What remnants of your past self still haunt you? 
These prompts aren’t meant for quick answers. They’re meant to linger, to echo, to open crypts within your soul. On this World Dracula Day, let your words be relics, your journal a tomb, and your thoughts a form of haunting. 

Write like you’ll never die. 

Sunday, May 25, 2025

New stamps

I've been pretty horrible about handing out cards for my books or even sharing business cards, but now with my new stamp, it feels more like a gift since I'm giving a code SHARON9 for a percentage off-- it's actually 15%, not 10%, but that's hopefully a nice surprise. I'll just write 15% in red.




Friday, May 23, 2025

If Someone Had Told Me This About Meditation, I Would Have Tried It Sooner

Yesterday's webinar, Meditation, Altered States, and After-Death Communication, hosted by the University of Virginia's Lifetime Learning and led by Dr. Jennifer (Kim) Penberthy, was a bit spooky. As someone who’s always been a bit skeptical about meditation (aka, I fall asleep), I left the session thinking: If someone had told me I’d be more likely to have a paranormal experience through meditation, I would have started years ago.

Dr. Penberthy, a clinical psychologist and professor at the University of Virginia’s Division of Perceptual Studies, shared fascinating research into how meditation and other altered states of consciousness can open doors, not just to personal well-being, but potentially to experiences that challenge our very understanding of reality.

The session dove deep into how meditation can enhance mental health, aid in grief, and even foster after-death communication. Yes, you read that right. Scientific investigations are beginning to show that people in deep meditative states sometimes report encounters that feel profoundly real, often with deceased loved ones.

This wasn’t some fringe theory talk. The research is being conducted at a leading university medical school, suggesting we might need to broaden our view of what meditation can actually do. For those coping with loss or seeking meaning, these insights could offer unexpected comfort and connection.

The practical takeaway? Meditation isn’t just about stress relief or mindfulness anymore. It might just be the gateway to deeper human experiences—some that even border on the paranormal.

So if, like me, you’ve been holding off on meditation, maybe it’s time to reconsider. The unknown might just be one breath away.

Perhaps it is time to add a lab component to my Ghost Stories and Haunted History course! 

Sunday, May 18, 2025

My book now has its own landing page!

Haunted Virginia Cemeteries: Dare to Visit the Restless Dead?

The Richmond Newsletter (September 1936).

   At the corner of East Franklin and 21st Streets in Richmond lies the old Jewish cemetery—quiet by day, but by night, locals say, it stirs with eerie life. 
According to The Richmond Newsletter (September 1936 edition), neighbors whispered of midnight figures in long black robes slipping through the locked cemetery gate, of strange happenings that chilled the blood. 
   Mary, who lived beside the graveyard, admitted she often lay awake, fearing the ghosts said to roam the streets after dark. 
   Skeptics may scoff, but for those who’ve seen shadows move where no living soul should walk, there’s no doubt: something haunts this forgotten corner of the city. 


Saturday, May 17, 2025

A Pilgrimage to Chatham: Mummiforms, Mortuary History, and a Packard Hearse

Last week, I took a deeply meaningful trip—three hours out and three hours back—to Chatham, Virginia, to visit a place that’s long held a top spot on my must-see list: the Simpson Funeral Museum.

 

Nestled in the very heart of town, this remarkable museum sits on the original site of Chatham’s first funeral home, established in the late 1800s. To walk through those doors is to step into the history of a profession that quietly shapes every community, every generation.

 

The centerpiece of this visit? Repository: Mummiforms—an extraordinary exhibit by Funetorium showcasing the largest collection of Fisk metallic burial cases ever brought together in one place. These cast iron, air-tight, anthropoid coffins—also known as “mummiforms” due to their distinctive shape were originally patented in the 1840s by Almond D. Fisk. They were designed to preserve the body longer, prevent the spread of disease, and allow loved ones to view the deceased through a glass plate set over the face. Their elegant, almost sarcophagus-like forms made them both functional and symbolically powerful.

What makes Repository: Mummiforms so significant is that it brought together more Fisk coffins than have been seen together since they were produced at the foundry over 170 years ago. For anyone passionate about early American funeral history, it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience, utterly surreal to be surrounded by such rare and storied artifacts. 

For context, President Zachary Taylor, who died in 1850, was famously reinterred in a Fisk metallic coffin during a controversial exhumation in the 1990s adding presidential intrigue to an already fascinating legacy.

But the museum offered much more than just the Fisk exhibit. The Simpson Funeral Museum is a trove of mortuary treasures, from award-winning antique hearses (including an immaculate Packard by Henney, which had me beaming—my dad was a devoted Studebaker man, and I’ve always had a soft spot for Packards) to antique coffins, presidential-style caskets, and burial vaults that tell the story of how the American funeral evolved.

The museum also boasts a stunning collection of regalia, including mourning attire, funeral flags, and memorabilia from fraternal orders and funeral directors’ associations.

It was a privilege to witness this tribute in person.

And just when I thought the day couldn’t get any more surreal, someone recognized me—“Hey, you’re one of the writers from American Cemetery & Cremation! You wrote that Poe book, right?” It was a fleeting moment, but in the best way possible, I had my little mortuary nerd celebrity encounter.

For those who live and breathe the history, culture, and craft of funeral service, a visit to the Simpson Funeral Museum isn’t just educational—it’s deeply personal. A pilgrimage, really. One I won’t forget.

Monday, April 28, 2025

Anne Spencer Exhibit and Rare Book School at the University of Virginia

Friday an amazing day at the University of Virginia with the Anne Spencer Exhibit and Rare Book School!

The lectures were fascinating, and I had the joy of meeting Shaun, Anne Spencer’s granddaughter. I also caught up with my former professor, Alison Booth — and I hardly recognized the school grounds!

Anne Spencer was an American poet and civil rights activist, a powerful voice of the Harlem Renaissance, and the second African American author included in the Norton Anthology of Modern Poetry. Her Lynchburg home was a vital gathering place for luminaries like Langston Hughes, W.E.B. Du Bois, Thurgood Marshall, and Martin Luther King Jr.

A librarian, writer, and activist, Spencer’s story reminds us of the lasting power of words and the importance of creating spaces for dialogue, creativity, and resistance. For those passionate about literary history, her papers are preserved at the Albert and Shirley Small Special Collections Library at the University of Virginia — a treasure trove of her writing, correspondence, and personal history.

If you ever find yourself near Lynchburg, don't miss the Anne Spencer House & Garden Museum — a beautifully preserved testament to her life and legacy. And, as a cemetery historian, I encourage you to visit her grave that is nearby. She is buried in Forest Hill Cemetery in Lynchburg, Virginia, alongside her husband Edward and their family. Their son, Chauncey Edward Spencer — one of the pioneering aviators who helped pave the way for the Tuskegee Airmen — rests there as well. The Spencers' grave is marked by a slant stone. Ms. Spencer's epitaph reads Anne Spencer- Poet, a quiet tribute to a remarkable life and legacy. 

Feeling inspired and grateful to have spent the day immersed in her world. 

Monday, April 21, 2025

📰 Ghosts, Gravestones, and the Stories in Between 👻

I spent the last year walking among Virginia’s oldest cemeteries—listening to whispers from history, flipping through old newspapers, and collecting ghost stories that won’t let go. Now I’ve gathered them all in one haunted volume.I’ve always believed cemeteries have stories to tell—some carved into stone, others hidden in whispers and weathered newspaper clippings. After years of wandering Virginia’s most fascinating, unsettling, and sacred burial grounds, I’m thrilled (and slightly spooked) to share this This isn’t just a ghost story collection. It’s a journey through forgotten headlines, folklore, and sacred spaces across the Commonwealth—retelling ghostly encounters that are as much about memory as they are about mystery.

You’ll meet:
  • A president who still whistles in the cemetery
  • Spirits tied to a bathtub murder that made national headlines in 1909
  • A house built from Union soldiers’ tombstones (!?)
  • A haunted pet cemetery
  • A gravestone struck by lightning—three times
  • Civil War ghosts still visiting their brothers’ graves
Many of these stories come directly from newspaper archives and local oral traditions. Some are tragic. Some are bizarre. And some—like the 1902 ghost that startled a man cutting through a cemetery at night—are almost comically eerie.

In the book, I take you along for the ride. We start in Central Virginia and circle the entire state—from the eerie elegance of Arlington National Cemetery to Appalachian cemeteries rich in folk art and mining tragedy.
I even share a few of my own experiences staying in haunted inns and walking the Appalachian Trail with a slightly racing heart.

So, what’s this book really about?
Yes, it’s about ghosts. But it’s also about:
What we remember—and what we forget
The rituals of mourning and place
How folklore helps preserve history
And why some stories demand to be retold

🪦 Until then…
I’ll be posting ghost story snippets, behind-the-scenes cemetery pics, and weird Virginia trivia right here in your inbox over the coming months. 

Friday, February 14, 2025

Bringing collage poetry into the classroom

 

This semester I am giving my students a choice about how they complete their reflections of classic ghost stories. Students have the option to create an artistic piece along with their statement of meaning. Here's one of my examples:
Clever and Literary
Marvels Adore
the Dying
LOSS
Resolving Grief
WITH the
LUMINOUS
Delicate
LOVE IS MEANT
ТО ВЕ
living
WHAT'S REALLY HAPPENING
Explain Death
Empower
Bring back
What that Really Means
Statement of Meaning:
This collage poem deeply resonates with the ghostly themes in Edgar Allan Poe’s Ligeia, particularly the supernatural persistence of the character’s spirit and her transcendence of death. The imagery and words reflect key elements of the story, evoking a sense of loss and grief that mirrors the narrator’s mourning after Ligeia’s passing. Phrases like LOSS, the Dying, and Resolving Grief suggest an ongoing struggle to understand death, much like the narrator’s obsession with Ligeia’s memory and intellect. There is also an undeniable sense of supernatural return within the collage, with phrases such as Bring Back, Empower, and What That Really Means hinting at resurrection, recalling Ligeia’s eerie reappearance through Rowena’s transformation. The ghostly woman, the skeletal imagery, and the presence of candles heighten this gothic atmosphere, evoking the story’s fixation on the boundary between life and death. Additionally, the words Clever and Literary, Marvels, and Adore reflect the narrator’s deep reverence for Ligeia’s intelligence and extraordinary nature, emphasizing her presence not just as a lost love but as a being whose power defies mortality.
I almost forgot to mention that the door has a wreath made of roses and vines—both plants included in the story. The door feels more like a portal, as if marking the transition between life and death, the known and the unknown. The swirling smoke adds a spectral quality, while the reaching hands suggest something occult, an echo of the esoteric knowledge Ligeia possesses and the supernatural charge that permeates the tale. Even the shape of the room itself, pentagonal like the interior of a pentagram, subtly reinforces the theme of magic and mysticism that underpins her spectral return. Altogether, the collage serves as a visual and poetic reflection of the story’s haunting essence, capturing the eerie beauty, undying love, and supernatural defiance that define Poe’s tale.