Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Cradle graves in the pouring rain!

Here is our impromptu advertisement for Saturday's Cradle to Grave: A Planting Day at Shockoe Hill that I shared on social media.
Transcript:
“It’s a beautiful day” Connie (filming)
“It’s a beautiful day to come out to Shockoe Hill Cemetery and plant some mums” Sharon
“And we don’t need to water!” Connie
“That’s right! You don’t need to lug water. The water is brought to you” Sharon
“Yay, we’re almost done” Connie.

We were being silly because it was pouring but we did good work and the cradle graves look lovely! And, fortunately, we didn't have to carry water to each grave. Thanks, Mother Nature!

Shout out to Connie for making sure I wasn't alone.





Thursday, September 18, 2025

The Author's Crypt with Dacre Stoker!

 


Jeffrey with Strange Richmond Tours will be joining Vamp Chat next week to talk all about our upcoming events. You can check out more about what’s planned here: strangerva.com/stoker-2025 

One highlight you won’t want to miss is the Dissecting Dracula workshop, Dacre’s passion project, offering a fascinating deep dive into the origins of Dracula and its cultural impact.


🦇 Hunting Vampires with Dacre Stoker

📅 October 3 & 4
📍 Richmond, Virginia

Dacre Stoker – the great-grandnephew of Dracula’s creator, Bram Stoker – will lead us through multiple events exploring the legend of vampires.

Are you a vampire fan? Dracula, the most iconic vampire story ever told, has haunted the stage, music, literature, and film for over a century. Come learn about Bram Stoker, the creation of Dracula, and why this story continues to thrill us.

You’ll have the chance to connect directly with Dacre – far more than a typical “meet & greet.”


📚 The Authors’ Crypt

Saturday, October 4 at 1 PM
Main Library – 150 seats available (Free!)

Featuring Dacre Stoker, Dan & Eva of the Vamp Chat podcast, Sharon Pajka (that's Me!), Pamela Kinney, and Ashley Grant.

Books will be available for purchase and signing after the event – don’t miss it!


A Christmas at Hollywood: Holiday Traditions Tour (December 21, 22, and 23)

Just announced through Hollywood Cemetery's email! We have brought back our Christmas tour!
I know, I know, we're really not jumping holidays, but I like to plan ahead! This is great for family members who are in town and who want to get out of the house. Obviously, I cannot promise this, but historically, all of my Virginia December cemetery tours have been in the high 50s-60s.
To RSVP, email Kelly Wilbanks at kwilbanks@hollywoodcemetery.org.
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A Christmas at Hollywood: Holiday Traditions Tour
This 90-minute holiday-themed tour will focus on Virginia holiday traditions; the story of Charles Minnigerode and the first Christmas tree in Williamsburg; Colonial and Victorian-era Christmas customs; and reflections on remembrance and tradition during the holiday season.
Sunday, December 21 at 3:00pm
Monday, December 22 at 3:00pm
Tuesday, December 23 at 3:00pm
This event is free; however, a donation to Friends of Hollywood Cemetery is encouraged. No refunds or transfers. Spaces are limited to 30 participants. An RSVP is required to attend.
Please dress comfortably for walking.
For questions and to RSVP, email Kelly Wilbanks at kwilbanks@hollywoodcemetery.org.

Saturday, September 13, 2025

Rolling Rugs, ChatGPT Birds, and Witches: Reflections on Teaching, Connection, and Curiosity

Book signing at my local Barnes & Noble

Last weekend, I had one of those moments that remind you why you do the work you do. At my book signing, a student from twenty years ago showed up and said, “Remember me?”

As if I could forget. She was the stubborn student who hated English class so much she once pretended to fall asleep on the reading rug right in the middle of the room. Instead of fussing at her, I did what any good teacher (or perhaps any slightly odd teacher) might do: I rolled her up in the rug and carried her into the hallway. She laughed, I laughed, and then I wondered if maybe rolling students up in rugs wasn’t actually in the teacher handbook.

On Saturday, she and another former student from a completely different era of my teaching life drove three hours just to say hi and get a book signed. People can call me weird. They can side-eye my research interests or think my courses are strange. But what endures, what carries through decades, is connection. For me and my students, that connection just happens to come through dark and spooky things.

ChatGPT created image
That theme carried through the rest of my weekend. I spent this morning leading a session on how students can use AI tools responsibly, not as a shortcut but as a partner in their learning journey. We explored how ChatGPT, Grammarly, and other tools can support paper writing, study prep, and presentations while still building critical thinking skills. One highlight was comparing ChatGPT with the chat feature in Office 365. The results were both eye-opening and hilarious: Office 365 gave us slick visuals, while ChatGPT managed to spell “Edgar Allan Poe” correctly—partial credit!—but decided that the bird in The Raven was called a “Thaven.” It was a perfect reminder that AI is powerful and quirky, but the human brain is still the best fact-checker. The takeaway? Use AI to enhance your work, not replace your creativity. Bring your curiosity, and let AI be a tool, not a crutch.


After, I attended "Sylvia Plath and the American Witch-Hunts" with Dorka Tamas, hosted by Romancing the Gothic. It was a rich discussion of how Plath used witches in her poetry as figures of power, persecution, and resistance, shaped by both history and the cultural climate of McCarthyism. We explored four of Plath’s poems: "The Times Are Tidy," "Witch Burning," "Lady Lazarus," and "Fever 103". Each poem revealed how Plath used the witch figure to grapple with politics, gender, myth, and survival. Dorka reminded us that these witches are not just rebels or victims; they are complex, layered, and alive with meaning.

Now I'm just sitting out on my porch thinking about my teaching and learning, how it is really just one long experiment in connection. You never know which moments will matter. You never know which odd, small, or unconventional things will roll back into your life twenty years later. But when they do, they remind you why you teach, why you write, and why you keep showing up. That’s the magic.


Thursday, September 4, 2025

Book signing at Barnes & Noble (Creeks at Virginia Centre) 1-3pm

This Saturday, I’ll be doing a book signing at Barnes & Noble for my new book, Haunted Virginia Cemeteries, and kicking off the spooky season with a celebration of stories and shared passions. 🎃📚

I know how these events go. Some people will ask me where the bathroom is, or what books I recommend, assuming I work at the store. Others will avoid eye contact because they don’t want to feel pressured into buying a copy. And that’s okay, I’ve been teaching English for 25 years, and I’m prepared for all of it. I can recommend books and I know where the bathroom is. And people avoiding eye contact, not a problem at all.

For me, book events are about connecting with like-minded people, sharing enthusiasm for books, and engaging in conversations that remind us why we love stories in the first place.

If you’re around, stop by! Let’s talk books, writing, and maybe even a little bit of spooky season magic.